Unstoppable Power of Letting Go Things

 

Rejection. Do you remember last time you felt you were rejected?

Was it a guy that never returned a phone call?

Or a father who never bothered to understand your thoughts?

Or maybe it was someone in your life who never thought you were good enough?

No matter what you did to try to impress them? We all know rejection hurts. It stings.  It makes us feel we are not good enough. It causes us to question ourselves & doubt our future. But I must tell you rejection isn’t something we should be afraid of. And it sure isn’t something that should make us discouraged, depressed or work unhealthy amount of hours just to prove to the world that we are somebody worth loving & paying attention too.

I am going share you two ways that we can see rejection in order to leverage those moments of pain to be the greatest catalyst to our success & proof of our value & uniqueness.

The first way to see our rejection is by seeing it as a projection. “A Psychological Projection”. A psychological projection is when someone subconsciously employs undesirable feelings or emotions onto someone else rather than admitting to or dealing with their own unwanted feelings.When we can see how the rejections we face may have to do with another person’s inward turmoil & not our own value, our life will change. Rather than shrink back, get discouraged, or play it safe. We will move forward in life with confidence & high esteem. Properly handling rejection is a crucial component to ending the rising anxiety, depression & suicide rates in our nation & world.

One of the study shows that, Rejection is both a cause & a consequence of depression.  But let me tell you, we can leverage our moment of rejections to produce confidence & success. The main thing responsible for the rejection can be one the reason of your own success.

 

The second way that we can see rejection is by viewing it as a protection. Protection from something or someone that isn’t meant to be in our lives anymore. You should believe that may be the rejection you are experiencing can be protection from the future that wasn’t best for you!

Rather than internalize rejection to mean that we’re less valuable or that our future is unsure we should view it as a protection from something or someone that isn’t to be in your lives anymore. We should view rejection as a necessary developmental tool & a catalyst for massive success.

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